Many foreigners who come to Japan are surprised by something soon after they start living here.
That is something the Japanese do very well "sorry" That's the point.
You hear this phrase in many different places, such as on trains, in convenience stores, and at school.
Those hearing this for the first time might wonder, "Do Japanese people apologize that much?"
But actually, "I'm sorry" isn't just a word used when apologizing.
Today, I'll introduce the three meanings of the Japanese word "sumimasen" (excuse me/I'm sorry).
[① When apologizing (I'm sorry)]
This is used when you have caused trouble for someone.
Example: "Sorry, I'm late."
[② When calling out to someone]
It's also used when speaking to strangers or busy people. It's similar to the English "Excuse me."
Example: "Excuse me, where is this station?"
[③ When expressing gratitude (thank you)]
This might be the most surprising point. In Japan, it's sometimes used to mean "thank you."
Example: "Thank you, that was very helpful."
【【Why do we say "thank you" and "excuse me"?】
You might wonder, "Why apologize when a simple 'thank you' would suffice?" The reason lies in Japanese culture. In Japan, it's highly valued to "avoid causing trouble for others" and "not waste their time."
Therefore, when someone does something for you, saying "thank you" also conveys consideration and thoughtfulness towards the other person, such as "I'm sorry for causing you trouble."
This feeling of "I'm sorry" is embodied in the Japanese word "sumimasen."
[Let's learn Japanese phrases!]
◎Sorry, I'll be a little late. [① When apologizing (I'm sorry)]
◎Excuse me, is this seat free? [② When calling out to someone]
◎Excuse me, could you please tell me the way? [② When calling out to someone]
◎Excuse me, thank you for helping me. [③ When expressing gratitude (thank you)]
◎Excuse me, I'd like one of these, please. [② When calling out to someone]
In Japanese, a single word can sometimes have multiple meanings. "Sumimasen" (excuse me/I'm sorry) can be seen as an example of the thoughtfulness and consideration that Japanese people have.
When you come to Japan, be sure to listen carefully to when and how Japanese people say "sumimasen" (excuse me/I'm sorry). I'm sure you'll discover even more of the fascinating aspects of the Japanese language and culture.